Yes and no two words exist
so, what about balancing them
say yes to all those things which you really want to do
saying no to everything which you never want to do
say no to all those things which diverting you to achieve your yes
say no to all those things which are coming between your yes
either its meeting people, going to somewhere or anything.
say No to balance your Yes and say Yes to balance your No
Keep a gentle balance between Yes and No.
and what about may be, your may be either leads to yes or no
so decide quickly where it will go and take care of your balance.